Dear Abby,

My husband is a liar and a cheat.
He has cheated on me from the  beginning, and,
when I confront him, he denies  everything.
What’s worse, everyone knows that he cheats on me.
It is  so humiliating.

Also, since he lost his job six years ago,
he hasn’t even looked for a new one.
All he does all day is smoke cigars, cruise around
and shoot the bull with his buddies, while I have
to work to pay the  bills.

Since our daughter went away to college he doesn’t
even  pretend to like me, and even hints that I may
be a lesbian.

What should I do?

Signed: Clueless

Dear Clueless: